Personally, I would describe myself as someone who is still learning patience. There are times when I am understanding and willing to give people grace, but there are also moments when I catch myself judging too quickly. It is often easier to notice what someone else is doing wrong than to stop and reflect on my own actions and attitudes.
I can admit at times I need to slow down and look inward instead of immediately focusing on others faults, however I am a human and I am a work in progress. When I take time for personal evaluation, I realize that I also make mistakes and need grace just as much as anyone else.
Because of this, I have been more patient and understanding with others. Choosing patience over judgment has been helping me see people in a more optimistic light and respond with kindness rather than criticism.